When it rains, it pours

May 21, 2015

May seems to have been a really busy month.

We have finished up one study. We are waiting to find out about another. Appointments are happening in many places. And that is for the kids.

My dad has been having someundiagnosed pain in his leg for a few months. After being boun around for months, he is finally seeing somedifferent doctors. It looks he is headed for surgery in the not too distant future.

Right now we are living the sandwich generation.

Nine years

April 28, 2015

April 27, 2006.

It was a day that changed our lives forever.

At the same point in time, our four year long quest to become parents had ended, and our journey as parents began at the same time, as our new baby was delivered.

And the adventure continues.

Acronyms and their impact on our lives

April 12, 2015

This year has been a blur.

Part of it is getting older.  I’ve heard older people say that time goes as you get older.  A few years ago, I didn’t really believe.  And I didn’t really care, because I had lots of time left.

I find winter to be a tiring season, as the days are short.  February was miserably cold this year.

We have been extremely busy over the past few weeks, as we have been getting an educational assessment completed.  It took several trips and meetings to complete the testing and discuss the results.

We received a diagnosis, with an acronym, which we did not expect a few months ago.

It is frustrating to have a diagnosis, but it helps explain some things that we had no explanation for.  It also opens the door for some additional assistance and accommodation, which will be helpful.

We will have to work at teaching and developing impulse control and other other skills that most kids have.

We will have to be constantly in prayer and relying on God for wisdom as we parent over the next few years.

A random thought

April 11, 2015

Nine years ago, we were in the midst of waiting to find out if we were going to be parents.

We had an interview with two social workers to discuss the possibility of becoming parents to a little boy waiting for a forever family.

We found out on April 12, 2006.  And our lives have not been the same since.

Adoption is for life

March 30, 2015

Adoption changes the lives of everyone around the adaptive family.

Some will say that us a nice gesture.

Others won’t know what to say, and say nothing.

Others will make all sorts of well meaning, but uninformed comments.

It can take years, even decades before we realize the impact of adoption.

Adoption is meant to be a commitment to the child, no matter how tough things can be.

Snow Day!!!

February 2, 2015

Today was quite an unusual day.

I woke up around 6, and was surprised to see how much snow had fallen overnight.

All the schools in our area, including the cities were closed.

After spending about an hour digging out, I was ready to head into work. I had an appointment in the morning, so I drove in. After I got parked, I found out the office was closed.  It would have been nice to known a bit sooner .

After I got home, I took the bpoys tobogganing for a bit. It was pretty cold, so we didn’t last too long.

At thr end of the day, it was fun.

Busy weekend

January 25, 2015

This has been a weekend of milestones for us.

Reid was five yesterday. Today marks the fifth anniversary of him coming home.

We were fortunate to get him so young. He really has no recollection of anything other than life with us. We are tremendously blessed to have that experience.

Even though things are busy, we are blessed to have Reid in our family. He is patient and determined, which helps make sure we get what he is trying to communicate.

We have much to be thankful for, there is no doubt about that.

The importance of community

January 23, 2015

We returned early Sunday evening from a trip to Indiana for a Bible quizzing event.

It was fun, but it was a long trip, with about seven hours of driving each way.

It is a lot of fun to go on a trip like that as part of a group.

It can be a challenge when there are smaller children that don’t handles quiet activity well. A group of parents with kids in this age group that can take turns looking after the younger kids makes it work out easier for everyone.

We so easily don’t see those around us that may have some sort of struggle. Don’t be afraid to offer help. You never know how much of a difference it could make.

Birthdays

January 23, 2015

As the week has gone by, I realized today is the last day we will have a four year old in our home.

Reid’s birthday is tomorrow.

It is hard to believe it has been five years.

Where has the time gone?

We have a fee spirited, living, energetic boy. At times, he tests us. He is very determined. Most of the time, it serves him well. Other times, not so much.

The key is to enjoy each day.

Back to routine

January 3, 2015

School starts again on Monday.

It is nice to get back into routine.

a break us nice, but it to possible to have too much of a good thing. It is important to get back to routine before it gets there.